But not only is going backward not an option, it is also not recommended.
I do remind myself, however, that when things are seemingly going well for me and I am confidently striding along my desired path, that I also have a tendency to belittle my past experiences. “I am so much happier now”, “This is so much better than where I was/who I was with before”.
The truth- I know- is that neither of these scenarios is actually correct. They are both false representations of my current situation (and my past). It is my mind playing [a rather nasty] trick on me. Maybe it is somehow linked to our survival instincts, i.e. when things are good and we are safe we should roam far and wide and gather food, etc. vs when there is danger, we retreat to a place that we know to be safe.
The problem is, our mind only perceives things, it rarely ever really knows things. So, for example we only perceive that last job to be “not so bad after all” relative to the stressful situation you might find yourself in this moment. But in a moment of clarity, you might realise that there are so many different reasons why the current position is better and might help you move you closer to your goals.
So, I am trying to not let my mind play tricks on me, and I am going to try to plunge through that veil of false perception in those moments where I begin to demonise my current trajectory.